The Ann Arbor Chronicle » social connections http://annarborchronicle.com it's like being there Wed, 26 Nov 2014 18:59:03 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.2 In The Archives: Story Makes Full Circuit http://annarborchronicle.com/2011/04/29/in-the-archives-story-makes-full-circuit/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=in-the-archives-story-makes-full-circuit http://annarborchronicle.com/2011/04/29/in-the-archives-story-makes-full-circuit/#comments Fri, 29 Apr 2011 21:23:46 +0000 Laura Bien http://annarborchronicle.com/?p=62603 Editor’s note: In her most recent local history column written for The Chronicle, “When Work Was Walkable,” Laura Bien described a series of relationships that existed 100 years ago between people who lived within walking distance of their work. She included the following lines: “When Daniel [Quirk] visited the mill, he may have been driven by his coachman, Manchester Roper. By 1910, Manchester had been hired as one of the two servants in Daniel’s household.”

A Chronicle reader recognized that his grandmother had been the other servant. That reader contacted Bien. And Bien got permission to explore the family archives. This month’s column grew out of that research. Fair warning: There’s a bit of ground to cover first before you’ll learn the identity of that reader. But as always with Bien’s text, it’ll be worth the wait. Keep your eye on Mabel.

As 1900 began, 77-year-old York Township farmer Horace Parsons knew that his wife Maria was gravely ill.

His first wife Margaret had died half a century earlier, three years after their New Year’s Day wedding. Horace married his second wife Mary Ann on New Year’s Day, 1850. Just months later, his mother Rebecca died. The following year, Mary Ann died, possibly in childbirth, and Horace’s father Orrin died.

Horace had seen them all laid to rest in Saline’s Oakwood Cemetery.

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Mabel as a child. (Image links to higher resolution file.)

Horace married his third wife Maria on May 14, 1860. Over their four decades together, Horace and Maria shared the hardships of 19th-century Michigan farm life. They lost one of their children. They survived lean years early in their marriage, selling off sheep, pigs, and farm machinery. Unlike some neighbors, they hung on to their mortgage, expanding the farm from 30 acres to 50 in 1870 and 66 a decade later.

That year Horace’s restored flock of sheep was up to nearly 80 head and 30 lambs, plus cows and pigs. He grew oats, beans, wheat, potatoes, and Indian corn, and tended 2 acres of apple trees. His and Maria’s place was the typical mixed-crop, mixed-livestock Washtenaw County farm of the era. The heterogeneity of their farm and those of their neighbors was insurance against the not uncommon disasters that regularly struck down one or another animal or crop.

Now his and Maria’s time together, he could see, was ending.

Horace hired a local girl to help. Mabel was a teenager, though neither the term nor the concept existed when she came on as a servant on Horace’s farm. Mabel was the oldest child of brickyard worker and general laborer Orson Pepper and his wife, homemaker Myrtie. The young mother had been a schoolgirl only shortly before Mabel’s birth in 1884.

Mabel lived in the Parsons’ farmhouse with Horace, Maria, and the couple’s two unmarried adult children, Charles and Minnie. In July of 1900, Maria died of what was determined to be heart disease. Just three years later, Horace died at age 80 of what was thought to be Bright’s disease, a kidney ailment.

By 1905, Mabel had five younger brothers: Bina, Glen, Carl, Thayer and Orville. The family moved to Ypsilanti, settling in a small frame house at 212 Normal St.

Orson and Glen got jobs as laborers, Bina was hired as a railroad worker, and Carl clerked in G. B. Dunlap’s Michigan Avenue grocery. In the fall of 1909, Carl married Alice Webster, a onetime house servant of Ypsilanti bank cashier and Peninsular paper mill secretary Daniel L. Quirk.

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Mabel circa 1915. (Image links to higher resolution file.)

It may have been due to Alice and Carl’s connection that Mabel was hired by Quirk. By 1910, she worked as a domestic in the large Quirk mansion on North Huron.

Mabel was experienced and a good worker. Known for her cooking, she likely cooked for the Quirks. One dessert specialty of Mabel’s still fondly remembered by a living granddaughter  is “Blueberry Grunt,” a hot blueberry cobbler studded with dumplings and served with cream.

As with her hiring in the Quirk home, the next turn in Mabel’s life may also have come from family connections. Her brother Bina worked as a railroad teamster. Another railroad employee was called “Lon” – short for Alonzo. In the fall of 1915, Mabel married Lon in Potterville in Eaton County. The couple moved to Albion, where Lon worked as a railroad foreman.

Mabel and Lon’s respect for family tradition showed in their children’s names. Mabel’s first child, born in 1916, was named John Orson, a combination of the names of Mabel’s and Lon’s fathers. Mabel’s daughters’ names – Myrtie and Olive – honored Mabel’s and Lon’s mothers. Mabel’s son’s name – Hugh Alonzo –  commemorated the infant’s paternal great-grandfather and father. Mabel’s fifth and last child, Frieda, was born in 1924.

The family moved to Parma in Jackson County. Money was tight. While many of their neighbors owned the new technology, a radio set, they did not.

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Mabel and Alonzo

In time came a move to a farm in nearby Springport that had belonged to Lon’s grandfather and father. The former teen servant now had a family and a home of her own. She also had a car, though according to one living descendant, “I never saw my grandmother drive and do not think she ever learned. Their old car had been around so long and she was so short and heavy that the seat springs on the passenger side were so crushed that she almost literally sat on the floor and could not see [through] the window.”

That’s the recollection via email of Mabel’s grandson, who as a boy visited the Springport farm with his father Hugh. Now a Saline area resident, Don still recalls those occasions.

“My vivid memories of overnight stays as a young boy there included sleeping on itchy flannel sheets in a very cold upstairs bedroom,” Don recalled, “and trying very hard to not have to go outside to the two-holer outhouse (complete with Sears catalog) until the light of dawn arrived.”

The onetime servant girl had become a beloved grandmother. “[She] was very short and very round,” wrote Don. “She was known as a good cook and did everything from scratch, including making her own butter, which always had a salty taste to preserve it longer.”

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Mabel, John, Frieda and Lon. (Image links to higher resolution file.)

After family dinners, the playing cards came out. “The nightly ritual often included playing Canasta,” wrote Don. “My grandmother would fall asleep between her plays and my grandfather would yell ‘Mabel, wake up god dammit!’ to which she would inevitably reply ‘I was just resting my eyes’ as she scanned the table to try to figure out what cards had been played.”

Don described his grandfather Lon as a survivor “who had scratched out a living anyway he could. My father [Hugh] told me that Lon … would make money by taking his team of horses out after a big snow storm and offer to pull stranded cars from the ditches for a dollar, which was a lot of money then.” Sometimes they say that family traits skip a generation. It may be that Mabel and Lon’s lives of hard work made an impression on their grandson.

Don continued, “[Lon] taught me to play cribbage (I think I was about 11 or 12) by showing me how to count the points for one hand. After that, his ‘rule’ was that he got to take all the points I missed for himself.”

Don concluded, “It made me a quick learner.”

That quick learner excelled in school. He earned a master’s, a doctorate, and a UM law degree. He worked as an Army lawyer and later for local law firms.

Don went on to serve as city councilman and then mayor of Saline. He taught at Thomas Cooley Law School, Oakland University, the University of Maryland, and Eastern Michigan University, where he still teaches (he founded an EMU scholarship fund and served as an EMU regent for good measure). He published, among numerous professional articles and chapters in legal publications, a book on the use of forensic science in the courtroom.

He’s even been on NPR twice to discuss the “CSI Effect”. This theory posits that TV courtroom dramas’ emphasis on seemingly infallible forensic technology has influenced real-life jurors to more readily acquit if the same high-tech evidence doesn’t appear in a real court. (Don’s verdict: Nope.)

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The silver napkin ring, a link to the family's past.The family posed it here with blueberries "to honor Mabel." (Image links to higher resolution file.)

The gentleman who remembers itchy sheets and farmhouse meals of long ago is today the chief circuit judge for Washtenaw County’s trial court, the Honorable Donald Shelton.

Just as Mabel honored her ancestors, Judge Shelton and his wife Marjorie remember theirs. One prized family possession is a silver napkin ring passed down from Mabel’s daughter Myrtie. In addition, Judge Shelton notes, the extended family still observes “an annual reunion, called the Culver Cousins Reunion after our progenitor Phineas Culver who migrated from upstate New York to Mooreville, Michigan [in York Township] through the [then-] newly available Erie Canal.”

“This year we will hold our 99th reunion.”

One only wishes Mabel could also attend, to share some Blueberry Grunt with her grandson and his family. She’d beam with pride.

Grateful thanks to the Sheltons for their invaluable help, without which this article would not have been possible, and for the use of their personal photographs.

Mystery Artifact

Last column, Dave and Murph correctly guessed that the article in question was a seamstress’ sewing clamp, formed into a decorative bird shape.

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Mystery Artifact

You can view the object on the second floor of the Ypsilanti Historical Museum in the front sewing room.

This week we’re remaining on the second floor to take a peek at this odd object.

A bit over a yard tall, it’s something that just might have been used by one person mentioned in the article above.

What might it be? Good luck!

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Monthly Milestone: Tom, Huck in Ann Arbor http://annarborchronicle.com/2011/01/02/monthly-milestone-tom-huck-in-ann-arbor/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=monthly-milestone-tom-huck-in-ann-arbor http://annarborchronicle.com/2011/01/02/monthly-milestone-tom-huck-in-ann-arbor/#comments Sun, 02 Jan 2011 14:50:38 +0000 Dave Askins http://annarborchronicle.com/?p=55413 Editor’s note: The monthly milestone column, which appears on the second day of each month – the anniversary of The Ann Arbor Chronicle’s launch – is an opportunity for either the publisher or the editor of The Chronicle to touch base with readers on topics related to this publication. It’s also a time that we highlight, with gratitude, our local advertisers, and ask readers to consider subscribing voluntarily to The Chronicle to support our work.

Envelope addressed to a Newspaper Man

Newspaper Man almost rhymes with Superman.

Holiday mail received by The Chronicle this year included an envelope addressed to “Dave Askins, Newspaper Man.”

I knew who had sent it without looking at the Virginia return address. It was from a guy nicknamed “Huck.”

Inside was a bonus – Huck’s holiday letter. It was a two-pager. The second page featured a paragraph that drew my gaze in that way your own name will when rendered in print: “So I Googled all Ann Arbor newspapers and emailed the first one for help – three hours later Mr. Dave Askins of The Ann Arbor Chronicle …”

Long story short: Richard Huckeby – “Huck The Elder” – and his lovely bride Rita were traveling across the country in early December, and were hoping to visit their friend Tom Stockton in Ann Arbor. But they were having trouble connecting via email or phone, which they’d used reliably in the past to communicate with him.

Otherwise put, Huck was looking for Tom. And Huck had asked a newspaper man for help.

The play on names, Huck and Tom, occurred to me only much later. For younger readers who are growing up MySpacing, LiveJournaling, Facebooking, Plurking, and Twittering, but not reading any of the works in the canon of American literature: A man using the name Mark Twain wrote a novel, “The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn,” which featured as main characters Huck Finn and Tom Sawyer. Twain’s Huck and Tom were two boys. The Huck and Tom of this vignette are both past 80 years old.

Included in the themes of “Huckleberry Finn” are boats on the Mississippi River. For example, it was not accidental that the wrecked steamboat found by the heroes is named the “Sir Walter Scott.” But it’s not my purpose to chart a course into literary waters. It’s simply to point out there’s also a steamboat connection to the Ann Arbor meetup of Tom and Huck.

That steamboat connection is this: Once upon a time, Tom Stockton built a steamboat. From scratch. When I spoke with Stockton on the phone last week, he allowed that he’d started with an early 1900s vintage steel lifeboat. But the engine and boiler he did build himself. [Local photographer Phyllis Valentine has posted some nice photos of the Arbor Queen on her Flickr account, including some close-ups of the steam engine and boiler.] Huck described in a later email to me how he and Rita had taken a ride in the boat:

A few years back when we came in the summer, he hauled his steam launch down to Lake Geddes, and my spouse steered whilst he tended the boiler and I videotaped.

Huck also revealed that he himself had a steam engineering background, having built a couple of narrow gauge steam tourist railroads in Colorado.

But when Huck first emailed me, I did not know anything about Tom Stockton, his steamboat or any of his other engines. All I knew about Tom was that Huck was trying to find him. From Huck’s email [emphasis added]:

… about a week or so ago he stopped responding to emails, and does not answer phone calls.

We have called all the hospitals in the area, have tried unsuccessfully to find a relative in the Ann Arbor area by phone, have checked the obituaries. …

Do you have a suggestion as to how we might be able to learn of his situation? We are in Rockford, Ill, and are heading east this AM. If Tom is alive, we want to come see him; if he has passed on without our permission, we will pedal on east, but very sadly.

Please forgive us for bothering you, but we thought a newspaper man would know what other avenues of inquiry we might pursue (we have internet access and cell phone as we travel).

This is not the kind of inquiry I am excited to receive. It sounded like all the likely avenues had already been pursued. And I did not like my chances of achieving success. And success could mean having sad news to report. But I tried the phone number in the book. No answer for me, either. I contemplated heading out to knock on his door, based on the address I’d found in the phone book. Calling law enforcement seemed overly dramatic and intrusive. I was nigh on giving up.

Action Hero Newspaper Man

A Christmas gift from a few years ago. Note: Newspaper Man superhero action figures are not provided in exchange for voluntary subscriptions to The Chronicle.

But there was something about the query that struck a chord with me. Some of what resonated was this part: “… if he has passed on without our permission, we will pedal on east, but very sadly.” That’s just damn good writing. But what cinched it for me was the “newspaper man” reference. I wanted to live up to that label.

So I did what a modern newspaper man does. I used my @a2chronicle Twitter account  to Twitter out a query: “I would feel remiss for not at least giving it a shot: Anybody know Thomas R. Stockton?” And a few minutes later, @juliewbee Twittered back that yes, she’d grown up down the road from him.

Some readers may recognize that Twitter handle as Julie Weatherbee, one of the stewards for  the now-defunct but still beloved Arbor Update website. Weatherbee’s sister, it turns out, still keeps in touch with Stockton’s daughter. And in no time flat, Stockton was located – he had temporary quarters at Glacier Hills rehab. He was back home when I phoned him last week.

So I passed along to Huck and Rita the Glacier Hills contact information, and they were able to chart their course back east through Ann Arbor for a three-hour visit with Tom. Mission accomplished for a newspaper man.

I’ll grant you that Huck and Tom’s visit are not a perfect match for the government and civic affairs material that has become the core of The Chronicle’s coverage. But I will make a place in my newspaper man’s day for guys like Huck and Tom when I can. It’s a part of being sociable. And that’s just part of the editor’s job, as A.J. Munson saw it back in 1899:

He should be of a sociable disposition. In smaller towns any business is helped by the sociability of the proprietor. Particularly is this true of that of the country editor. The sociable and society doings of a town come closer to the people than anything else, and the local newspaper should reflect them in its columns. ["Making a Country Newspaper," p. 13]

So here’s to 2011 – may it include its fair share of Hucks and Toms.

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